so what’s up?

i really wanted to talk to him today and set the record straight between the two of us and clarify what we are and why we do the things we do if we both know that we can’t be together and if both of us are basically in it for nothing.
i wanted to know if we were going to work things out and actually start dating and in a few months proli come out of the open and start letting people see us together instead of whatever it is we’re doing now.
i wanted to know if i had a chance at actually having a relationship with someone again. but i don’t see that happening.
maybe i’ll just disappear and leave things like how they are now. if he wants me, he knows where to find me and maybe i’ll be there. maybe i won’t.

i’ve been really lonely lately with adrian in manila and me and kevin not talking so much anymore.

more lost then lonely actually.

my life sucks

tonight has just been a really bad day for me.

i hung out at the mall with casey today but i just wasn’t thinking right. i got home and forgot to eat dinner and now i’m starving and there’s nothing to eat!

i talked to kevin and i’ve been crying my fucking eyes out and wtf do i do now? i’m so lost.

i wish i didn’t talk to him after me and james broke up. i wish i never went out looking for a friend. i wish i could just hide under a fucking rock.

i want to die.

what did i do right

yesterday was so crazy. on so many different levels.

we went to pandanon yesterday, which is AMAZING, btw. and as usual, i got wasted. it was so crazy cuz i was the only person who got soo completely wasted. but if you think about it, i was actually the only person who drank that much anyways. :p

so word is i puked and passed out and puked in between being passed out and vince and ibang and nina were helping me get better. well, ibang helped but i think vince did the most help. he made me swim but then he let go of me and somehow, me and dale ended up having a swimming contest and i WON 😀 but then after that i ended up hitting my foot on a rock and it hurt really bad so someone had to massage it. i don’t remember who it was, though. maybe it was rico. who knows. now i have a swollen toe 🙁

and after i sobered up, me and ian, mercy’s ex boyfriend, talked and i started crying. but not crying like the way i cried over james during sinulog. just like small drops of tears and a lot of frustration. i know my problems are nothing compared to what other people have but you know, still, it bothers me. i hate the fact that kevin has feelings for me because i don’t. and it bothers me so much because i know i will never have feelings for him. and i don’t want to be in this situation where i’m friends with someone who doesn’t just see me as a friend. he told me that if i don’t have feelings for him, things’ll go back to the way they were. but we both know they won’t ever go back to the way they were. and it frustrates me more because we’ve been friends for the longest time and i know for a fact that after i talk to him, i’m probably not going to talk to him for a while.

i’ve come to the conclusion that i’m going to shut everyone completely out of my life. no more guy friends, just me and my girl friends. or maybe just me.

i’ll tell you how my life turn out. soon.

Damsel in Distress

http-equiv=”Content-Type” content=”text/html; charset=utf-8″> name=”ProgId” content=”Word.Document”> name=”Generator” content=”Microsoft Word 10″> name=”Originator” content=”Microsoft Word 10″> I’ve always been soo blown away with the thought of someone whisking me away and carrying me off to some place awesome. I always thought that my life would just be so great if this guy would just come along into my life and make things ok.


I think that’s why I fell so inlove with James. I guess it’s because he came at such a bad time in my life. and when we got together, it felt like he saved me from all the shit i was going through and somehow he made everything feel better. he made things easier to get through. and i think that’s how i became obsessed with this idea.

maybe it’s because i’m spoiled. or maybe it’s because for a while i became dependent that  made me ending up thinkng that it “took one to forget one” or i hought that if i was with someone then my life would just get better again. but i guess i’m gonna have to start changing the way i perceive things, yeah?

right now i don’t want to be a damsel in distress. i got myself into these problems and i should at least get myself out of it.

bouncing out of topic, things in my world have been weird lately. really weird. weird in ways you can’t even imagine. things i don’t want to happen are happening to me and i’m just floating around here trying to figure out what the fuck i’m supposed to do.

i really don’t know what to do though. i really don’t..

lastly, i’ve been doing some very stupid things lately that i proli won’t be talking about here. but the odd thing is, there’s no voice at the back of my head telling me to feel bad or hide or whatever. so we’ll just see what happens.

i’ll be getting wasted tomorrow. i’ll have drunk stories to tell. so, enjoy waiting.

better than ever

so finals are almost over. i have to get ready for kevin’s prom and kim’s party that will all be on the same night
how am i going to do that?! LOL

i’m at iBrowse with keanan and Leigh. they’re playing counter strike and me, i’m bumming around trying to find something interesting to do but so far, nada. 🙁

yesterday i ran into james at the mall with his friends. he hasn’t changed at all. i mean, i want to understand him. i want to confront him but what the point now, you know?

he didn’t even look at me. he just PRETENDED to be busy with his phone or something. he’s so transparent, i can see right through him. because i know him soo much.

but i’m happier now. i think about it, i don’t know why i stayed. sometimes i feel like a failure because being with james was a challenge. it was like a game that i didn’t want to quit because i didn’t wanna end up being the girl who gave up on him. if i was james, i’d hate me for leaving. for not fighting for us. but you know, there’s only soo much you can do for someone who doesn’t know what he wants and for someone as immature as he was.

i think my only problem now is being lonely. i miss being taken care of and taking care of someone in return. i miss having someone to cuddle and make me smile and all those stuff you get in a relationship. i know that james isn’t the only guy who can do all those things for me- that’s why i don’t mope over our relationship as much as i used to anymore. instead, i’m looking forward to having that again someday.

things have changed a lot since me and james’ve broken up. i’ve been dating again. but that was just adrian. i don’t know about that though. i mean, i miss him a lot but he says a lot of things that contradict what he says and i just end up really frustrated. 🙁

and then there’s this guy in the dentistry department who’s been bugging the hell out of me. i want him to go away so bad. i think i might switch numbers. hahaha.

whatever. i’m gonna go play poker or something. smell you later.

i’ll be at coffee bean later, studying. see you.

school shmool

at biz depot again with diana. i promised myself never to come here again but geez, i’m so freakin bored. haha. i wish someone, ANYONE would snatch me and bring me to wherever as long as it’s far from here and as long as it keeps me from studying. i’m so tired and my brain is probably overworked too. haha.

i had to promise diana i’d bangka her just to get here. i hate free loaders. sigh.

anyways, i switched phones with this friend of mine, amiel. and turns out it got snatched. hahaha. oh well, looks like i’m getting a new phone 😀


always at the bottom

i refuse to be with someone who constantly makes me feel like i’m always at the bottom of his list.
like the way you make me feel ALL THE TIME BAH.

my PBB TEENS experience:
yawa gyud aie. hahaha. sakit kay’s dughan bai
director: [after a few ques.] wait, ilang taon ka na ba talaga?
me: uhh… 18?
dir: eh, anong ginagawa mo dito?
me: i’m not ready to be a part of the adults…
dir.: hindi talaga pwede eh..

nganu nag teens man gyud ko oie. i really hate myself right now. haha.

no, i actually don’t care.

i’m sunburnt.

from now on i will only date older men. not guys older by a few months. older gyud. BAHALA NAMO.

i see my friends do it and they’re happy.

older men is where the 🙂 and <3’s are.

di bitaw. i’m anti dating.

no moooooooooooore kay pareha ramong tanan!

this one is for YOU

Come with me
Stay the night
Just say the words but boy it don’t feel right
What do ya expect me to say (You know it’s just too little too late)
You take my hand
And you say you’ve changed
But boy you know your begging don’t fool me
Because to you it’s just a game (You know it’s just too little too late)

So let me go now
‘Cause time has made me strong
I’m starting to move on
I’m gonna say this now
Your chance has come and gone
And you know…

It’s just too little too late
A little too long
And I can’t wait
But you know all the right things to say (You know it’s just too little too late)
You say you dream of my face
But you don’t like me
You just like the chase
So be real
It doesn’t matter anyway (You know it’s just too little too late)

Yeah yeaaahhh… It’s just too little too late… Mhmmm

I was young
And in love
I gave you everything
But it wasn’t enough
And now you wanna communicate (You know it’s just too little too late)
Go find someone else
And letting you go
I’m loving myself
You got a problem
But don’t come asking me for help
‘Cause you know…

I can love with all of my heart, baby
I know I have so much to give (I have so much to give)
With a player like you I don’t have a prayer
That’s the way to live
Ohhhh… mmm nooo
It’s just too little too late