Divorced, Divorcing, Divorcee

So today I almost died at the sound of my grandmother, my aunt and my own mothers’ voices as they spent around 3 hours rambling on and on and on about each others personal lives [which really has no business being on here] and one major topic that constantly kept reoccurring- divorce.

And after watching FRIENDS the whole day, I feel like I sympathize for Ross Geller and what the heck… it’s not some thing I haven’t talked about before so hit.

Malachi 2:16: “I hate divorce, says the LORD God of Israel.”
Matthew 19:6).“So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate”

Well, my grandmother, who was obviously on the con side of marriage mentioned that God says some stuff about divorce in the bible so I decided that I would search it on the internet [thank God for Google] and that was basically what I found. Usually I like to win conversations like this with, “well, what if I don’t believe in God?” but as someone who one day does hope to get married in front of God, I shouldn’t.

But my mom has been divorced and so has my aunt and knowing their reasons for getting a divorce, it just made me wonder, if God knew what kind of men his children would turn out to be would he still say the things he said? Idk, I don’t even want to start on the topic of God and His opinion because that raises so many questions and I’d rather not. But going back to topic, is divorce such a bad thing?
Honestly, on my side, I wouldn’t want to get a divorce unless I absolutely had to. I mean, it defeats the whole purpose of a marriage right? But it just teaches us to be absolutely sure about the person that we want to marry. But, it has come to my attention that a  lot of women [girls, actually] only get married out of practicality.
Oh, if I married him I wouldn’t have to work a day in my life.” EVEN if they know that the man they want to marry if a two-timing man whore. And in the end, when they are married with a family and the whole she-bang they realize that they don’t wanna live that kind of life anymore and just mess up everyone else’s lives. But then again, that’s their story are really not any of my business.

In the end, I’d still say I am pro divorce and I support anyone who wants to get a divorce it’s just that… I wish that people would learn to be smarter because that way they would save a lot of people the hurt and frustration.

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