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Work Out Better with FeelinGirl [Ad]

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I’ve had the privilege of yet again, to work with FeelinGirl, an online website that sells thigh and waist trimmer garments, amongst other things.

Now tbh, I have no idea what these things are so I decided to do my own investigative research and here’s what I found about trainers:

Trainers are apparel that helps the stimulation of heat during work outs that may also result in faster slimming. So if you’re into sculpting your legs and need some help, you might want to check these out.

I’m guessing that a booty sculptor works the same way and it also helps in lifting your buttocks, if that’s what you’re hoping to achieve and I think that this product would be the right kind. It looks pretty durable and lightweight at the same time- helping your workouts while allowing your body to breathe.

And lastly, you have your shapewear bodysuit which helps you achieve a sleeker silhouette.

Now, I feel the need to say this- people are born with curves and folds and they are completely normal. I don’t think that we should all feel the need to hide them but I do understand that some of us feel better with them and I don’t hold that against anyone. I respect anyone and everyone’s decisions to or not wear garments like this.

Tbh, there are days when I’m not feeling so great and a body shaper helps me feel a lot better about myself & I’m not going to hate myself for that either.

So if you feel like this is something you need and want, then happy shopping. But if you’re completely fine without it- great on you and no pressure.

Happy shopping!

xx,
Issa

Idk what that was

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Nobody wakes up one day and decides that they’re gonna feel like shit.

Sometimes it starts with I don’t feel like dressing up today, to I’m not gonna cook, to maybe I’ll just lay in bed and not check socials. And then you check your socials and you find your heart sinking into your chest.

And then your phone rings and it’s a million people needing a million things from you and instead of wanting to do it- you just curl into a ball and pretend you didn’t read/ hear it.

And then you hate yourself for not wanting to do it but it doesn’t make you want to do it any more.

And then you can’t breathe. Your head starts to hurt more often than it used to. Your eyes start to twitch. You get pimples. You accidentally break stuff. You forget what your husband looks like. You have a hard time remembering things. You even almost forget your menstrual cup inside you.

It be like that sometimes.

Sex Is My Favorite Topic

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I like to talk about sex as much as I love having it. I love talking about it mostly because I always felt like I couldn’t.

I always felt like I had to be ashamed that I was doing it as if it wasn’t the most natural human instinct in the world. But my time on Bayhana has empowered me to come out here and say it- I like sex and it’s not just for guys.

Hell, one of the first things I said to Paolo was- this is my body count, please let me know if you can’t take it (most guys can’t) so we can end this now. He could care less and that’s how I knew I loved him.

Women who have sex & explore aren’t sluts, bitches and hookers. But if you are a hooker, there’s nothing wrong with that either.

We are women who enjoy the pleasure of being aroused. We like being touched, licked, squeezed and we shouldn’t be ashamed of it.

So let’s talk sex. And period. And how both can affect each other.

Remember, if nobody ever had sex- you & I wouldn’t be here. So stop being such a prude.

The Grass Is Really Long Outside

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I keep catching Cody looking outside the window lately and it’s been making me feel very bad. You know, you can entertain a dog as much as you can and trick him with, “go get it” antics but eventually they’re gonna realize that there wasn’t really anything to get to begin with.

So I took him out while Paolo took over my animal crossing and did some fishing for me. I don’t think he caught anything amazing because I’ve practically squeezed that island dry. And then miguel will come on it and catch something amazing. He’s really good at fishing on that game for some reason. I envy him.


It’s also Father’s day today and I was really depressed about it for a while. It made me wish I had a better relationship with my family in this moment & wondered if my estranged relationships with them will one day bite me in the ass.

We don’t believe in karma.

I will fight for that to never happen.

But to all the dad’s reading this- there’s not really anything for you to read here. It’s really, mostly about Cody, but happy dad’s day anyways.

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We made amazing friends during this pandemic. * in particular. We played games together, sometimes 8 hours a day. We would talk until 3 in the morning, long after we shut down the computers. we’d be in bed, talking to him about finding a girlfriend, the games we play- life .

He would ask us everyday for updates. Everytime he came on he’d ask- what’re the updates? Ecq? Mcq? Gcq? I never thought anything of it.

Today he got bad news. What do you say when you hear bad news? It’s gonna be ok? What if it doesn’t get ok? * said if he has it and he doesn’t make it, the first time I’ll meet him is at his wake.

He said- now you’ll have more people to cry about. Joel and now, me. Before i found out I said- when all of this is done, let’s eat chicken wings. He said, I doubt that’ll ever happen.

God. Why is this happening. I can’t take it.

Inig ka cremate nako, bisitai kos balay ha

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We made amazing friends during this pandemic. * in particular. We played games together, sometimes 8 hours a day. We would talk until 3 in the morning, long after we shut down the computers. we’d be in bed, talking to him about finding a girlfriend, the games we play- life .

He would ask us everyday for updates. Everytime he came on he’d ask- what’re the updates? Ecq? Mcq? Gcq? I never thought anything of it.

Today he got bad news. What do you say when you hear bad news? It’s gonna be ok? What if it doesn’t get ok?

* said if he has it and he doesn’t make it, the first time I’ll meet him is at his wake. He said- now you’ll have more people to cry about. Joel and now, me.

Before i found out I said- when all of this is done, let’s eat chicken wings. He said, I doubt that’ll ever happen.

God. Why is this happening. I can’t take it.

“INFLUENCE” & Not Using Your Platform

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I got several messages recently asking me why I don’t use my platform and speak out on certain issues. If I’m being completely honest, my first thought was- when are my efforts ever going to be enough? but then I remembered- this is the internet.

Bea E. said something profound to me earlier- damned if you do, damned if you don’t. And damned if you say worst when you actually meant to say worse.

Enjoy the vlog.

Help

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I saw a woman with bruises all over her face & body. I asked if she was ok. She said she wanted to get out of where she was but she had nowhere to go and I can’t help but wonder how many women are also experiencing the same thing during the pandemic & even not during the pandemic.

I promised to help her but it’s 4 am and I can’t sleep but I also have no idea what to do.

I will help her.

I hope you can have pets in heaven.

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At 3 am last night, one of my best friend’s dad passed away.

I woke up this morning with the horrible news and I felt my entire body go numb. I had to just sit for a moment and ask myself- what can I do? How can I help my friend? Is there anything I can do?

At this point, not much.

It’s so hard when people pass on because they forever leave the people they love behind. They move on and we get left here forever trying to heal and I don’t think we ever do.

I hate death and the fact that I can’t hug one of my oldest friends.

Tito, you will forever be loved & missed. Thank you for always calling me putot and gamay.

I hope you can have pets in heaven.

Crying Over Absolutely Nothing

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I often wonder if our life would have been any different if this pandemic never happened.

Maybe we finally had that honeymoon.

Who thinks about a fucking honeymoon during a pandemic? Sorry if it’s shallow but I still get really sad about it.

Is that bad? People are dying and I’m here, inside a comfortable home, wishing I could travel? It sounds selfish but I can’t help but be sad about it sometimes.

Because maybe if things were different, I would be pregnant by now and not have to worry about giving birth during a pandemic. Maybe all the things we planned & talked about & dreamed about would have actually happened

This isn’t how our 2020 was supposed to be like and while we all put on a pretty face and say we’ll soldier through this sometimes when it’s 3 o clock in the morning- you can’t help but cry.